Be ourselves 13


Be ourselves
  1. Our thoughts are created based on past experiences, the information we take in and most important our belief systems.
  2. Other’s appreciation and acceptance has become the foundation of our self-esteem, and so we are always dependent on them to feel good about ourselves.
  3. In interactions, when we get hurt, we are unable to see the perspective of the other, and hence are unable to understand them. So to understand others we need to remain stable.
  4. People, who accept us today and make us feel good, may not be able to do it tomorrow, and then we feel low with the same people.
  5. It’s important to take charge of how we feel, instead of being dependent on others. To be INDEPENDENT means to be dependent only on the one inside. 
  6. Let us be ourselves and not keep changing our behaviour according to the way others behave with us. 
Acknowlegement: B K Shivani, Brahmakumaris

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